Is your life filled with love?
Do you feel happy most of the time?
Are you excited about each new day?
Do you enjoy the present and look forward to the future?
Back on Track: Rediscover Your True Self
We are often so preoccupied with everyday tasks and chores that we allow our life to be in charge of us, not the other way around, like its supposed to be. When you allow the autopilot to take over, the journey suddenly doesn’t seem that entertaining anymore, quite the opposite every day seems to be a minute longer, the number of things that amuse you is constantly decreasing and, somehow, all you do is wait for the day to be over, so that you can go to bed and allow your subconscious self to take over.
A life like this is not a life at all. If this is how you feel every day, then you need to understand that you’re barely alive and that you’re definitely not happy. Wasting your precious seconds on different pastimes will only make you sink deeper into monotony, which will obviously make it even harder to get out. First of all, you need to realize that you’re unhappy.
Are You Constantly Burdened With Negativity?
When was the last time you had a day filled with joy? Are you constantly trying to figure out ways to avoid interacting with people around you? When was the last time you did something nice for yourself? Trying to push through those eight work hours without anything significant happening, so you can go home and pay your bills at the end of each month isn’t what life is about. You’re obviously trying to consume all the negativity around you, and then retreat emotionally and physically into your shell. However, the walls you build around you wont protect you they will only make you feel more isolated and lonely.
Do You Feel like Your Life is Falling Apart?
Losing control usually causes people to panic. If you feel like your hands are tied, and that you have no effect on the things happening in your life, you should know that your consciousness is narrowed. You may have been under this fog for a while now, without even realizing it, which is probably why you’re acting extremely passive. That state of numbness is preventing you from gaining control over your own life, which is why you feel so helpless. Another side-effect is significantly lowered self-esteem the fact that you feel like you have no real effect on your surroundings usually causes the feeling of worthlessness, which, more often than not, leads to depression.
Is There a Void You Simply Cannot Fulfill?
Lack of parental or partner approval, the never ending quest for true love, career stagnation, unaccomplished life goals or a midlife crisis whichever situation you have on your hands, it probably makes you feel empty on the inside. The fact is that our emotional state is constantly influenced by those who we love and respect. This is a two-way street, and when these feelings are unrequited, its completely normal for a person to experience a wide set of negative emotions. Being that overwhelmed usually prevents us from seeing the source of our anxiety and frustration, and even if we do manage to put a finger on it, its quite difficult to find an appropriate way to deal with it.
You Need to Slow Down
Breathe in. Breathe out. You are worthy. You deserve to be happy everyone does. Let the whole world pass you by for a second, and focus on your inner self. This unnatural pace modern society forced upon us requires us to always push and push further, until we ran out of energy and until our spirit wears down. Its absolutely necessary for you to do everything in your power to prevent an inevitable breakdown, so slow down and try to hear your inner rhythm. Perhaps those standards you’re trying to live up to aren’t your own. Perhaps its not a bad thing that you stand out. You are unique, and you should build your life around your own dreams, desires and life goals.
Reconsider Your Choices
Are you happy with your career? Is your relationship still fulfilling? What comes to your mind the moment you wake up? Are those thoughts related to problems or something negative that bothers you?
This change of pace we just mentioned is a great opportunity for an evaluation. No matter how old you are, where you live or what you do, you can and should do this. Most people always consider themselves too old, too preoccupied or tired to change. However, if you have gotten to where you are in life by making all the wrong choices, not doing anything about it will ensure that everything stays exactly the same. Is that what you really want?
Look for Assistance & Make a Significant Change
You shouldn’t despair over the fact that you are unable to move forward and make a big life change. When life corners you, and when you believe there’s no way out, you shouldn’t give up you need to ask for help. Years and years of experience have showed me how troubled people simply surrender, and spend the rest of their lives miserable, when they are not properly attended to. If you allow me to work with you, we can determine the source of your problems, discover exactly what it is that troubles you so much, and find a proper way to deal with the situation. Together we will take as much time as you need, no more and no less, and we’ll eventually accomplish the ultimate goal the feeling of freedom.
Create a New Path for Yourself
The different psychotherapy methods, hypnotherapy and NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming) will assist you on your way of rediscovery. If you allow me to assist you, I will help you to once again learn how to express yourself, your feelings, thoughts and needs. Once you recognize what you truly want, you’ll be able to regain control over your life.
Rebuilding yourself as a stronger, more powerful, mentally and emotionally stable, and capable person is exactly what you need it’s what everyone needs. When you realize that you’re the one responsible for your own happiness, nothing will stand in your way.